From April to May our upheavals had upheavals.  Our granddaughter moved herself, her children and boyfriend back to our desert home.  Our grandson, asked to come back to the desert; mom disagreed ... mom agreed ... mom drove him back ....  Our son signed papers for a house ... and moved.    Plans were made ... remade ... made again.  Life struggled for balance, the roller coaster spring righted itself and now is the time to rest.